like, idek. I’m not here for any self-congulatory bullshit because I’ve had to deal with my fatness being associated with slovenliness for too long. I’m constantly told that I don’t take care of myself enough and my mother repeatedly tells me that my efforts are not good enough and my dad will always point out how I’m not like other girls. and every time I visit my parent’s house my mom tells me that I bring roaches with me and that when I’m not around the house is spotless and that I dirty it up with my presence alone. so idk, I’m not here for thin ppl calling out other thin ppl when this shit is not their fight.